so which law is valid?

Im swedish citizen but live in Holland so do the dutch laws overrules swedish rules? According to swedish rules, my money is untouchable, but according to dutch rules my money is his (or their) money???

For real, its not the money itself that bothers me, ofc we can use them for other stuff, but isnt it just a sick rule that I should have to pay for my love? Its like its a crime to fall in love with a person that is poor. Then you should get punished for it. And he should get punished for it since they take away his income. Now he has to beg me for money. Is that really human?

time to blog again...

and as always is it when Im upset :(

As I said before I planned to move to Holland and now Im here :) Thought all would be good and nice and with me and my love things couldnt be better, we really are made for eachother.

BUT, he has a diagnosis so he lives on social security. Normally they demand you apply for jobs and so on when having it or you are in title of some other help from the authoritys. He got an exception from that rule since they found him not able to work, BUT they didnt offer him the other help.

And now that I moved here they cut off his money with no notice, no call, no letter, NOTHING! He calls them and they said they planned to send a letter, cmon, planned it but didnt do it??? But it would all settle if we go there and speak with them cause ofc he is in title to it. Hahaha, we go there and what happens? Yea, they demand us to live on my savings!

Before I moved here I looked up things and I have to provide for my self for 3 months. Np, I got money from Sweden for my crappy childhood that arent allowed to impact your social income. Now I planned to use them for my staying here until I know the language and can get a descent job. And all of a sudden I have to use them to support my boyfriend.

Gahh, dinner is ready, will have to finish later!